Marie

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..I was waiting for Marie to finish snatching my weave when I decided that I wanted to have a conversation with her about sex. She is Cameroonian and from my very little experience with Cameroonian women on the subject, I just felt like the conversation would be lit. It was, I was right. Truths were delivered fam.

Anyway, I asked her simply, "Marie, what do you think about sex?" and she replied quickly with great ease "Sex is a good thing. It is a good thing for a woman. If you have sex with a man, he can lose his whole mind and his whole wallet, if you do it nicely". I was like "yaaaas Queen, give us the gospel!! tell us the truths!!" We both laughed. And then we went quiet for a little bit. Only the needle and thread working the room. She then asked me how old I was and if I had a man. Before I could even answer, she told me to not think about them (men) too much. She told me not to worry about them and not to worry about me. "As women...", she started, "We lose all our minds when we have sex with men. We put all of us in it. We love too much. It is natural, don't mind it, but be smart. don't worry about that man in your mind". 

I wondered for a second if I looked that messy, like was it so obvious that I just got just fucked...